
If you’ve ever found yourself in the uncomfortable position of being torn between two lovers, you’ll know exactly how difficult it is to make a choice.
You may have looked at others in that situation with disdain — only to find yourself later on in the exact same predicament.
You may have been on the painful receiving end of your loved one being tempted by another, or — even more painful — having given in to those temptations.
The lovers card, for all its exciting-sounding prospects, is a card of difficult (and sometimes next to impossible) choices. It doesn’t generally refer to the kind of passionate love affairs that you read about in romance novels. No. Someone usually gets hurt. Sometimes that someone is you.
This card refers to choices that must be considered, sacrifices that must be made, and consequences that must be accepted.
It can also refer to the union of polarities, as in the Mary-el version of the card.
The figures here are about as opposite as they can get: male and female, young and old, black and white. The female figure is strong and aloof, the male passive and vulnerable, Yet they flow together in an intimate embrace.
Even so, there’s an apparent emotional disconnect in this rendition. The female figure stares off into the distance while the males gazes downward.
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